Fun fact: Did you know that intercourse alone does not always make your girl orgasm?

Yes. Penetration alone cannot always give your girl that addicting, unforgettable sex experience you were aiming for. In fact, only a tiny percentage of women – 18 percent, actually – achieve orgasm through penetration alone. Meaning, no touch or use of toys or use of the mouth for their genitalia! Typically, clitorial stimulation is needed to achieve climax, and when you do oral sex to your girl, you are in a good position to stimulate that tiny clitoris that is the key to fantastic orgasms!

But the problem is, so much nonsense is going about giving oral sex the right way. A lot of people do not even know what the heck they are doing down there! If you are one of those people who are still writing the alphabet with your tongue and think you did a great job (spoiler alert: you did not), then it is time to improve your oral sex skills to the next level.

How do I start?


The most important part of oral sex is knowing her anatomy. Remember, clitorial stimulation is needed for her to have orgasms. As a matter of fact, a total of about 72 percent of women reported that this is necessary for orgasm during intercourse,  and you cannot do this if you do not even know where the clitoris is!

So where is this clitoris? It is right here, under the little flap of skin called the “clitoral hood”.

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Note, however, that the clitoris is not just found outside of the vulva. As you can see in the picture, it actually extends underneath the skin of the vulva, down both sides of the vagina by about 5 inches.

In other words, you do not have to put all your focus solely on that tiny clitoral tip called the glans clitoris. Most of the clitoris is hidden, so you can think of your tongue strokes as stroking that hidden yet sensitive body of the clitoris.

You can also use your fingers to penetrate her vaginal opening and stimulate the clitoris from the inside. You can even hit her G spot from that technique!

What is a G-spot?

You have probably heard about G spot and have an idea of how it can achieve a linen-gripping vaginal orgasm. But how can you find it?

The female’s G spot is located inside the vagina where you can stimulate the hidden part of the clitoris. When you use your fingers, you can feel the G spot as little ridges, like the skin of citrus fruit. But don’t jump right to it yet! Make her feel thoroughly aroused first to make her G spot more prominent. Please her through teasing!

4 steps to please her through teasing

Before you jump into touching her genitalia, it is incredibly important to build up pleasure first! Here are 4 simple steps to tease her:

  1. Take it slow - Do not rush it! Start by kissing her mouth and down to her breasts. Plant kisses on her body as you lower down to her waist and hips. As you reach her panties, do not take them off just yet! Instead, kiss her vulva through her panties for a few minutes. You can even softly trace her vulva with your tongue to tease her more.
  2. Take them off - Place your fingers on either side of her panties and slowly pull them down until they’re all the way off. You can even slowly kiss and lick the area above her clitoris called mons.
  3. Spread it wide - Spread her legs wide so that you have more access to her whole vagina and clit. Then the final teasing takes place – start by slowly planting soft kisses and licks all around her vagina and clit. By this time, she must be wet as you constantly tease her all around her vagina and clit!
  4. Action - Now the fun part begins - eating her pussy until she explodes in pleasure!

How to eat her pussy the right way

There are two techniques that are incredibly easy to perform, yet the most responsible for incredibly powerful orgasms you can give to your girl. They are the:

  1. The Pancake
  2. The Vortex

Pancake

This is the simplest oral sex technique. Here’s a detailed way how to do this crazy simple skill:

  1. Start by sticking out your tongue and allow it to drop over your chin. Make it wide and flat, like a pancake.
  2. Remember to keep it relaxed, wide, and flat. Make sure your tongue is thoroughly wet with saliva.
  3. To perform the Pancake technique, start by putting the base of your tongue to the bottom of her vulva.
  4. Slowly move your head (NOT your tongue!) upwards until the tip of your tongue passes over the clitoris.
  5. Start over again from the bottom, then slowly move up, and then repeat.
  6. Make sure you cover as much area of her genitalia with your wide, flat tongue as you move up.

Vortex

Aside from being easy to perform, the Vortex is also crazy effective at making her scream your name in pleasure!

To do the Vortex technique:

  1. Make an “O” shape with your lips. Make sure your lips are wet with saliva as you place them over the clitoris.
  2. Start sucking it

Sucking her clitoris into your mouth is very pleasurable for her. There are other variations of the Vortex that you should try as you explore which of it does she enjoys the most:

Constant Vortex

This is a variation of the Vortex where you keep a constant level of suction.

Rhythmic Vortex

On the other hand, this variation includes sucking and releasing her clit rhythmically. You can do it slowly or fast, depending on what she prefers.

Hard Vortex, then slow release

In this variation, you apply a strong level of suction to her clit, and then slowly release. Do it repeatedly, depending on her preference.

Licking Vortex (most women’s favorite!)

In this variation, you suck her clitoris and then hold it in your mouth. While her clit is inside your mouth, use your tongue to massage it. The speed and pressure of your licks depend on what she enjoys the most.

More powerful oral sex techniques for a powerful orgasm

But wait, there’s more! Aside from the Pancake and the Vortex, here are more creative ways to eat her pussy:

Under Pressure

In this technique, you apply extra pressure to her clitoris during the Pancake. In this way, she will feel the texture of your tongue on her clit more!

Take Her to the Edge

Edging her is a powerful technique to amplify her orgasms. To edge her when eating her pussy:

  1. Start by eating her pussy like you usually would.
  2. When you can tell that she is close to climax, slow down and back off so she DOESN’T orgasm.
  3. Do something else that is pleasurable but won’t bring her to orgasms, such as kissing around her vagina, her things, or her breasts.
  4. Once she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating her pussy as normal, but slightly slower this time. Do this until she is about to climax and then…
  5. Spend some time on other pleasurable activities but won’t bring her to orgasms until she has calmed down.
  6. Then start eating her pussy again at an even slower pace until she finally cums!

Finger Her

Fingering her while eating her pussy gives her more stimulation internally and externally. While doing this, you can even proceed to hit her G spot with your fingers or G-spot sex toy!

Clit + G Spot + Ass

You can also use your other hand to play with her ass while you eat her out and stimulate her G spot! There are also a lot of variations to play with her ass, like simply rubbing it, in & out penetration, or holding your finger/s inside her ass.

Note: DO NOT touch her vagina with the hand you used to touch her ass, or else you will give her a vaginal infection!

Final Takeaway

There you have it! Giving oral sex to a girl is actually easy – you just have to know how to do it the right way. Just remember: spicing up things and adding variations to eating her pussy is a major plus to your oral sex skills!