How to Use a Double-Ended Dildo
Dildos are the classic sex toy. They’re the OG that everyone usually thinks of when they hear the words “sex toy,” and it’s easy to see why.
Dildos are easy to use, versatile, can be packed with dozens of features, and have a truly timeless design and function.
But what if we could make dildos even better?
How would we even go about it?
Think about it this way: two heads are better than one.
What is a Double-Ended Dildo?
The classic dildo design is obviously inspired by the anatomy of the penis. Dildos look like plastic penises, with a tip that looks like a penis’s head and a flat base at the other end of the shaft that sometimes includes a scrotum and testicles, and sometimes holds a suction-cup base.
A double-ended dildo is different.
Instead of a flat base, their shaft keeps going…and going…until it ends with the head of another penis.
That’s right. A double-ended dildo is basically what you’d get if you combined two dildos together at their base, giving you a long toy with two heads for the price of one!
Types of Double-Ended Dildos
“I-Shaped” Double-Ended Dildos
These double-ended dildos are straight, long shafts with two penis heads at either end. Because of their length and initial straight shape, most of these “I-shaped” dildos were never designed to bend.
Instead, “I-shaped” dildos are best used for penetration without up and down movement, where two people put the dildo between them and grind their bodies against it, penetrating each other with every thrust.
“U-Shaped” Double-Ended Dildos
“U-shaped” double-ended dildos are curved at the middle, with each of the two penis heads rising up at a sharp angle.
Some “U-shaped” double-ended dildos were designed to bend, allowing their partners to move or thrust in a variety of ways.
Because of their curved design, these double-ended dildos are great for stimulating the G-spot of both of their users.
Anal Double-Ended Dildos
Most double-ended dildos were designed to be simple, their ends simply emulating the real anatomy of a penis, but some double-ended dildos were designed specifically to please two anuses at once.
These “anal double–ended dildos” often include a normal penis head on one end, and an anal stimulator on the other. These anal stimulators can include anything from wild textures and shapes to anal bead inspired designs, and even fists or curing fingers.
“V-Shaped” Double-Ended Dildos
If you search for double-ended dildos online, you’re bound to find some that incorporate a particularly novel design.
These “V-shaped” double-ended dildos look like two penises rising out of the same scrotum, standing parallel to one another and at a close proximity.
“V-shaped” double-ended dildos are usually designed to please one person with dual penetration, slipping into both their anus and vagina at the same time! They’re a great way to reach a blended orgasm!
1- Choose the Right Material
Before getting started with double-ended vibrators, you need to find the right material to fit your needs.
Like most sex toys, double-ended vibrators are made in many different kinds of materials, but the most popular ones are as follows.
Body-safe silicone: the most common sex toy material is medical-grade, or body-safe silicone. It’s easy to clean, durable, waterproof, and safe to insert in the body because it does not release particles or any material.
Glass: believe it or not, glass is also one of the most common materials when it comes to making sex toys. Don’t worry. Most glass dildos are so tough that they can survive even the roughest use, but it’s always good to check them for cracks before use.
Glass is a great material because it’s smooth, can be heated or cooled with water, and completely nonporous and thus bacteria-repellent.
We’ve narrowed things down to these two materials because we want your choice to be simple. If you’re buying an “I-shaped” double-ended dildo, you can choose one of either material.
However, if you’re buying a “U-shaped” double-ended dildo, you should stick to those made from body-safe silicone. This is because “U-shaped” double-ended dildos need to be as flexible as possible, as they’re going to be used between two people who are thrusting, moving, twisting, and stretching.
Now let’s get into how to use a double-ended dildo.
2- Choose the Right Kind
Like we mentioned before, there are 4 kinds of double-ended dildos which are the most popular.
“I-shaped” double-ended dildos, “U-shaped” double-ended dildos, anal double-ended dildos, and “V-shaped” double-ended dildos.
If you’re a person with a vulva and are going to be enjoying some solo pleasure play, then “V-shaped” double-ended dildos are your best bet.
If you’re a person with a penis and your partner also has a penis, then you should go with an anal double-ended dildo.
If you’re a person with a vulva and your partner also has a vulva, then “U-shaped” double-ended dildos will give both of you the greatest stimulation, as they curve specifically to hit your G-spots.
If you’re a person with a vulva and your partner has a penis, you can both enjoy an “I-shaped” double-ended dildo.
3- Communicate
Before introducing any new sex toy or position to your sexual experience with your partner, you should discuss it thoroughly with them first and get their consent.
Remember, great sex is built upon a foundation of great communication and great empathy. Talk to your partner and find out their needs, wants, no-go zones, comfort zones, and tolerance for pain and new experiences.
Double-ended dildos work by penetrating two people at the same time, either vaginally or anally. Make sure that your partner understands this, and that they understand that you will be penetrating each other by thrusting the double-ended dildo between you.
As part of this communication process, you should also do a few practice runs with the sex toy by using it on each other first, penetrating only one of you slowly.
Once you are both comfortable with double-ended dildos, you can continue.
4- Lubricate
Before using any sex toy, it’s important to use plenty of lubricant. We recommend using a great water-based lubricant like this one, as it’ll ensure your health, safety, and sexual joy!
You should apply the lubricant directly to the sex toy on both ends, because it’ll be penetrating both you and your partner!
But how does a double-ended vibrator work best? By using it correctly, of course!
1- Get in Position
The best position to start things off is for both you and your partner to kneel on the floor or your bed, facing away from one another so that your backs are facing each other. Then you must drop so that both of you are lying on your hands and knees.
Scoot back into each other so that your buttocks touch, then scoot forward so that there is enough space between both of you for the double-ended dildo.
From this position, you will be using the double-ended dildo to penetrate each other from the rear, either into your anus or vagina.
The great thing about this position is that it works well for anyone, even for partners who both have penises, as you can penetrate each other’s anus.
2- Penetrate (Slowly)
Now it’s time to get down to business!
After undressing and lubing up your double-ended dildo, you should hold it between the both of you.
One of you must now insert one end of the double-ended dildo into either your anus or vagina. Remember to insert it slowly, deliberately, and make sure to follow your inner anatomy so that you penetrate either your anal or vaginal cavity down its middle.
Once one of you has inserted one end of the dildo, the other must do the same slowly, making sure not to pull the toy out of their partner.
Continue the insertion until each of you is comfortable.
3- Find a Rhythm
Now begin rocking back and forth. At first, only one of you should be thrusting. You can either take the lead or let your partner do it.
This single thrusting style is recommended because it’s more gentle than both of you thrusting at once. You can experiment with different speeds, thrusting intensities, and thrusting angles and positions.
Once both you and your partner feel that you are comfortable with the process, you can both begin thrusting at the same time.
Find a rhythm together! Synchronize your thrusts so that both of you crawl forward or backward at the same time on your hands and knees, bucking your hips and buttocks back in a thrusting motion.
Before long, you’ll both be thrusting the double-ended dildo between you!
4- Listen to Each Other’s Body
As things heat up, both you and your partner will begin giving each other signals. You will feel this in the thrust of the dildo.
If the thrusts are getting quicker and shorter, then your partner is excited and wants you to thrust more quickly.
If the thrusts are getting slower and deeper, then your partner loves to be filled and wants you to thrust deeper.
Remember, every thrust will also move the double-ended dildo into yourself, so keep that in mind. You don’t want to thrust more drastically and be caught off guard that doing so will make the dildo penetrate you more deeply!
5- Try Different Positions
The best part about double-ended dildos is how versatile they are!
They offer many usage options and many different positions for use.
Let’s go over some of the different positions you can try below:
Doggy Style:
If you have a vulva and a “U-shaped” double-ended dildo, you can now experience the joys of the famous Doggy-Style position!
Simply insert one end of your “U-shaped” dildo into your vulva, then the other into your partner’s anus or vulva, and thrust away with you on your knees and your partner on their hands and knees!
Facing Each Other:
Unfortunately, this position only works with two partners who have vulvas.
Remember the “semi crab” position we talked about before? This new position is basically the same thing, except that you have to be much closer and use a “U-shaped” double-ended dildo.
Slip the “U-shaped” dildo into your vulva, then crawl toward your partner and slip the other end in theirs.
Then place your legs underneath your partners and spread your thighs apart slightly. Now, as you thrust, your partner will be on your hips and thighs, giving you greater control and intimacy!
We Recommend: Sappho
If you’re looking for an “I-shaped” double-ended dildo, there’s none better than Sappho. It’s a vibrating, double-ended dildo.
Sappho is a 12-inch double-ended powerhouse, with 9 vibration patterns, with one tip designed specifically to stimulate your G-spot, and the other made with anal stimulation in mind! It truly embodies the best qualities of “I-shaped” double-ended dildos, in one amazing package!
Check out all the amazing positions you can try with Sappho:
We Recommend: Adrena
Are you ready for a unique and refreshing take on the “U-shaped” double-ended dildo?
Then look no further than Adrena! Think of it as a strapless strap-on.
Adrena is a hook-shaped double-ended dildo, with a thrusting dildo on one end for an amazing intercourse experience, and a hook-shaped vibrator on the other to stimulate you or your partner’s G-spot.
Adrena offers 3 thrusting modes on one end and 10 vibrating patterns on both ends!
Check out all the amazing things you can do with Adrena:
Conclusion
Now you’re an expert on double-ended dildos and how to enjoy them! They are one of the best tools to please both yourself and your partner, and incorporating them into your sexual routine will truly reinvent your pleasure!
Before you read this blog, you may have felt hesitant or unsure about double-ended dildos.
You may have asked yourself one of the following questions, which are popular search terms online:
Are double-ended dildos that good?
Does a double-ended dildo feel good?
Are double-ended dildos worth it?
The answer is that double-ended dildos are absolutely “that good.” They’re regarded as one of the best ways to achieve dual, mutual pleasure, and they feel incredible.
If you’re still on the fence about them, you should look up reviews of some of the best double-ended dildos around, like Sappho and Adrena, and see all their positive buzz!
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