Squirting – you’ve likely heard about it, seen it, or have been around someone that can do it. Since the beginning of time, we have known that women can release fountains of juices out of the female urethra when they reach their climax. There are even unique variations of female squirting! From little sprays to powerful sheet-soakers, every squirt has different forms.

But did you know that men can do this, too?

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What is male squirting?

Male squirting is pretty much like female squirting – except that it shoots out of the penis due to strong contractions of the prostate gland (also called the “male G-spot”) and the pelvic muscles.

What is it composed of, you may ask? Urine, actually.

Yes, you heard (or read it) right! In fact, urologist Justin Houman, MD, explains that when a man squirts, the pelvic muscles contract so hard that they cause the bladder to contract as well, releasing the urine that has been contained in the bladder.

Moreover, the amount of squirt juices also varies from person to person, just like in females. From little trickles to gushing waterfalls, every male squirt has its own uniqueness.

Do men really squirt?

While there are not a lot of articles and research going around about male squirting, recent studies can attest that men CAN indeed squirt! In fact, there is one study that analyzed a 25-year-old male volunteer to observe this phenomenon through a transrectal ultrasound probe, and it proves that male squirting really exists. It is not just as explored as female squirting, but it exists, it can be done, and it can be experienced!

But note, however, that not everyone can squirt. Squirting (regardless if it is a male or female squirting) can only be done by a small fraction of people who can trigger their bladder to contract during orgasm. So if you struggle with achieving the skill of shooting streams of juices out of your penis, do not be disappointed with yourself. You are fine.

What does male squirting feel like?

Curious as to what it feels like? Well, according to a sex educator slash journalist, Bobby Box, squirting feels like a combination of near orgasm and an urge to pee. Some say it also smells like pee and it is colorless. Others described the sensation as “not exactly pleasure, but a combination of horniness and relieve of pressure”. But others testified that it felt as good or even better than cumming.

In other words, the sensation of squirting will be different for every person. So if you’re curious to try squirting and feel it yourself (or let your partner feel it), then try doing some of the methods below!

How to squirt men? The techniques

Whether you are doing it for yourself or your partner, using these techniques can guide you to achieving male squirting.

But remember, if you did not achieve it even after using these methods, do not be too hard on yourself!

Now, there are 2 techniques used to achieve squirting: The Overstimulation Method and the Anal Stimulation.

The Overstimulation Method

The Overstimulation Method involves overstimulating the penis through a combination of masturbation and playing with the tip of the penis with their palm.

There are also 2 variations of the Overstimulation Method: One is playing with their tip while stroking the shaft, and the other is playing with the tip post-orgasm.

Variation 1:

This variation achieves squirting by stroking the shaft of the penis and playing with the tip at the same time. To perform this, start by:

  1. Stroking the shaft of your (or your partner’s) penis for a minute or two, until fully erected.
  2. Use lube or spit to keep the head of the penis slippery, which is the most important part because this is where most of the action takes place.
  3. Once erected, start rubbing the lube or spit all over the tip of the penis using the palm of your hand.
  4. Do small circular motions on the tip of the penis, until you (or your partner) feel the pressure and the squirting sensation becomes stronger.
  5. Be patient and let it go!

Variation 2:

The other variation is somewhat similar to the first variation, except that you play with the tip of the penis AFTER ejaculation. To do this, you just have to:

  1. Stroke the shaft like you normally do until the climax.
  2. Once the cum shoots out, start by cuffing your hand and swiveling it around the tip of the penis for about 15-20 seconds until you / your partner feel the overwhelming urge to pee.
  3. Again, be patient, and when the sensation bursts, let it go!

 

The Anal Stimulation Method

The other technique to achieve squirting is through anal stimulation. In this method, you stimulate the prostate glands through the anus by using fingers, toys, vibrators, etc.

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As mentioned above, the prostate gland is the male G-spot. When stimulated, it can produce intense orgasms and can even trigger that uncontrollable squirting!

In this method, it is up to you if you want to play with the penis or not. Our focus here is to stimulate the prostate, whether externally or internally.

How to stimulate the prostate EXTERNALLY:

In external stimulation, the focus here is on the perineum, which is the strip of skin between the scrotum and the anus. Simply massaging this area can feel good, and it is a good option for beginners as well as an alternative for people who do not want to or are not ready for internal stimulation.

How to stimulate the prostate INTERNALLY:

Stimulating the prostate internally can be done by using well-lubricated fingers or a sex toy inserted into the rectum. Although the prostate gland cannot be touched directly, you can stimulate it through the rectal wall. If you want to try this internal prostate stimulation, just remember to:

  • Be as relaxed and aroused as possible, so that it is easier to insert fingers or toys into the rectum, and the experience will be more enjoyable.
  • Make sure that the area is squeaky clean! You don’t want to get some heebie-jeebies, even if it is your own butt.
  • Also, make sure that your hands or toys are clean! Cut your nails smooth to avoid scratching the delicate skin of the anus.
  • Use water-based lubes. It allows for easier penetration and reduces the chances of getting yourself hurt due to friction.

Advantages of Male Squirting

Being able to squirt has a lot of advantages! For starters, male squirting adds more sensation as the “urge to pee” builds up. It can also boost one’s self-confidence as you explore your body on what works for you and what does not. It also adds spice to your sex life because of a lot of variations to achieve it!

Disadvantages of Male Squirting

On the other hand, trying to squirt also has its disadvantages, especially if you are one of those who struggle to perform this phenomenon. Aside from feeling dismayed that you did not squirt (please don’t be), some of the disadvantages also include:

  1. Skin damage- Continuous rubbing of the tip of the penis can cause minor scratches and even lead to tingling pain. If you are unable to squirt within a few minutes of rubbing, just do it some other day.
  2. It’s messy! - The squirt juices will splatter all over, and it can be messier if you spurt like a water fountain. Best to do this in the bathroom, or else you will have sticky bed sheets and blankets if you do this in the bedroom.

FAQ

Is male squirting really a thing?

It is 100% a thing. However, there are just a few articles and research tackling male squirting, but it is real and there are men who have already explored and performed this.

Is male squirting dangerous?

It is not bad to squirt, however, there are some minor risks when you do this (See the Disadvantages above). But rest assured that it is safe to perform. Just don’t overdo it.

I can’t squirt! Is there something wrong with me?

No, there is nothing wrong with you. Some people can do it, while some needs practice until they can do it. Hitting the right spot and figuring out the right combination that works for you takes tons of patience. So do not beat yourself up and just enjoy exploring your body!

I only had drops of squirt. Is that okay?

Yes, it is okay. Squirting takes different forms from person to person. Some can have little drops while some can burst fountains. Either way, it is okay.

None of these techniques work! What should I do?

The techniques here are not a standard but simply a guide. Just like how squirting takes various forms, the techniques will also vary from one person to another. Take a technique from here and modify it as needed.

Conclusion.

That’s it! Male squirting is just as real as female squirting, and it can be achieved through different methods. You may not achieve it on the first try or achieve it using the techniques done by other people, but do not fret! There is nothing wrong with you.

The most important takeaway here is knowing your body more, what works for you and what does not, how your body reacts, and what is pleasurable for you and what is not.

Bottom line: Listen to your body and give what it wants.