Have you ever found yourself in a situation where your sex life is good…but not great?
More than once, you’ve found yourself thinking: “What would it feel like if my partner and I tried something different?”
Well, you and me both! It’s not like we hate the way we make love to our partners, it’s just that it’s time for us to explore new and exciting lands.
Especially in the world of your clit.
Riding the Edge
Just looking at the name itself reminds me of that Lady Gaga song. Now that I think about it, it’s the perfect tune to do this position in!
How it Works
Basically, you lie down on your back with your partner on top of you. Straighten your legs and allow your partners to cage them from the outside. Then, slowly roll both of your hips and take the time to find the perfect rhythm between your bodies. If either one of you feels like they’re going to cum, stop until the need passes, and seduce each other all over again.
It might sound incredibly frustrating to do because at this point all you want is that orgasm, but there’s beauty to this madness. The goal is to get each other so desperate to cum that it doesn’t even matter if your partner is stroking your clit right.
What’s important is feeling that strong, uncontrollable orgasm completely taking over your body and leaving you both tired and deliciously sated.
No, this isn’t the one you use in the kitchen for your salts and peppers. This is the one you do in bed – no penetration required.
How it Works
This time, have your partner lie down on their back with one knee bent until the sole of their foot is planted firm on the bed. Then, you’ll sit on top with your back faced towards them, making sure that your pussy meets the base of your partner’s bent knee.
And just like Riding on the Edge, grind into your partner’s thigh at a slow pace at first. Don’t be shy to figure out how fast or deep you want to go because the goal here is to savor a different sensation rubbing up against your clit.
You can even experiment with different patterns too! Maybe you’ll circle your hips or even try slapping it against the thigh. Just make sure to hold on unless you’ll fall off!
This is quite fun to do. When I tried it myself before, my arms felt so sore from having to hold on tight onto my partner’s thigh as I was going crazy over grinding myself onto their thigh. It’s an experience I’d gladly do again and again because it’s that mind-blowing!
Don’t turn your back on a classic just yet, because we’re adding a twist! This will leave you with renewed excitement for a position that’s been here from the start.
How it Works
You think you know how to do this, but we’ll still run it down for you because there are new tricks to add on!
Get down on your hands and knees, making sure they’re firmly planted on the bed before having your partner kneel behind you and pressing his crotch against your ass.
Then, when your partner is ready, have them slide their cock or strap-on right by your clit. You should be able to put a hand over it to make a pseudo-vagina and make your partner feel they’re inside you.
At this point, your partner can thrust according to the pace both of you want and enjoy the way their cock or strap-on rubs deliciously against your clit. You can also intensify the feeling by tightening your hand and give their cock a nice squeeze.
Just imagining it makes me want to try it with my partner too! Sometimes, we’re not up for penetration so this can be a sexy alternative.
Here comes another classic position with a twist. This is for you if you’re in the mood to just sit back, relax and do little but feel so much.
How it Works
Lie down with your partner sideways on the bed and make sure that you are facing each other. Lift your leg to give your partner ample space to enter you before draping it over their hips. Wrap your arms around each other for all over skin to skin contact, then you both can grind against each other whether that’s your clit rubbing against their groin or using a small vibrator to give you that extra sensation.
This is quite interesting to do especially when you’re home from a long day of work or errands and all you want is to be with your partner without being too rough.
Now this is for the people who're feeling adventurous because this one requires a prop and tests your balance.
How it Works
Sit on a chair, or a stool for an extra challenge of keeping your back from falling. Spread your legs as wide as possible and let your partner in. Let them put their cock or strap-on in to the hilt and get to fucking to your heart’s content.
The magic of this position is that you get to lean back a little and slip your hand down to play with yourself any way you like. For sure, you can see heaven either through rubbing, circling or tapping your fingers against your clit.
I also tried this one and the fact that I can touch myself while my partner endlessly pounds inside, it’s a position I can’t wait to do again.
There you have it! These are the five best sex positions to clitoral stimulation. You can go ahead and try these out with your partner and find something new to add onto your sex lives. You’ll thank us later!